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Do you have a Verbal Connection with your Partner?

One common problem people have in their Romantic relationship is lack of communication but there is another problem as well, some people can communicate just fine but they can't make an Intimate Verbal Connection with their Partner.

We use verbal communication to get our point across to our Partner but people receive this information in layers that involve more than just words. It's not that we look for these things, the brain is designed to pick up on them automatically and if these layers of communication don't all fit together properly we suffer from lack of real connection when we communicate.

We will pick up on things such as tone of voice, physical actions, & the energy we produce as well and if you are not Connecting then the balance between our verbal & physical communication is off track.

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20 Things That affect Our Vibration

Let’s face it, it can be hard to keep your Vibes High..


Okay so, it’s hard to be Vibrationally Optimal at all times. in our current lifetime. This world is stressful and harsh so it can be a real challenge to raise your Vibration and keep it raised sometimes, This is why you are at your Vibrational best when you are sleeping peacefully. During waking hours it can be quite a challenge if you are out among society and everyday challenges.

So what can you do to help yourself keep your Vibes going strong? Here is a list of ways you can help keep your Vibrational Frequency high and below you will find a list of things to avoid.

Ways To Raise Your Frequencies..

  1. Be Childish- Children have the highest Vibrational Frequencies of any group of Humans. Of course as an adult you can’t always sit and play with legos and watch SpongeBob all day but you can make time to spend some quality time playing with the kids on their level, or if you don’t have any small children in your life there are many ways you can behave like a child. Get a coloring book, watch some cartoons, buy some dolls and remember how to use your imagination. It might sound silly but it works… try it and see for yourself.

  2. Watch Your Demeanor- Are you aggressive, cranky, unforgiving, etc.. practice happiness, bliss, and contentment. Being cranky gets you nowhere and if you present yourself as aggressive you can count on your Frequencies being low.

  3. Avoid Addiction- This one is hard for many people who are already addicted to something but it’s not impossible. As someone who took strong pain pills for over 8 years for a chronic health condition then suddenly lost my prescription with no warning because of the regulations caused by the opiod epidemic, I know first hand how hard it is to control addiction but there are ways to help yourself get better. You just have to want it bad enough and give yourself permission to take it one step at a time. Needless to say, if you are not already addicted to anything don’t start any new habits.

  4. Avoid GMO foods- Now, this is one I have to agree with that Conspiracy Theorists on. I find it very strange that the Government put bazillions of $$ into creating Genetically Modified Foods then started selling them at a much cheaper cost than the natural original products. GMO’s keep our Frequencies lowered and they are believed to cause man health problems including Cancer. Do the research yourself and see for yourself.. it’s downright scary.

  5. Charity- Give without any expectations. You don’t need gratitude or witnesses to feel good about giving. People have become leery to give because of the high level of “scammers” out there today so always do your research before giving to a charity. You can do something as simple as pay for someone’s order, buy a lunch for a homeless person, use your imagination and see how many ways you can give. It doesn’t matter of you are rewarded or not.. what matters is the energy behind the action.

  6. Don’t Mistreat People or Animals- Doing either of these will drop your frequencies like a hot potato. Treat them with kindness and your frequencies will soar. When you mistreat another Living Being in any way, shape, or form, you drop to the bottom of the Vibrational Charts. Making amends for past mistreatment out of pure love will raise your frequencies.

  7. Electronics- Your Phone, Tablet, Ipad, PC, Television, Video Games etc..all lower your frequencies for two different reasons. First would be the EMF’s they produce are harmful to your energetic frequencies and are known to be harmful to use. Second would be the content they display. There is so much violence, hatred, drama, anger, etc.. and these energies spill right into your own energetic field. I strongly feel that this is the reason kids are becoming more violent in the newer generations. Not because they are mimicking violence, but because they are overloaded on Negative Energy caused by absorbing it from the electronics and they just can’t handle it. Kids aren’t designed to hold so much negativity.. childhood is supposed to be fun & happy. If your family is heavily into Electronics, start collecting Orgone Pyramids for your protection. They come in all varieties & prices. I can’t recommend them enough.

  8. Don’t go against your Beliefs & Values- Staying true to yourself and not giving into outside pressure to do, say, or think things you don’t believe in will increase your vibrational frequencies every time.

  9. Love, Respect, Admiration, Forgiveness, Empathy, etc..- Practice living with as many of the positive traits as you can. Anytime you actively put off positive energy you are raising your vibrational levels.

  10. End bad Relationships- Don’t stay in any relationship that doesn’t serve you. It doesn’t even have to be a Romantic Relationship for you to need to put an end to it. Toxic friendships, bitter family members, coworkers who are jerks, jobs that require dealing with cranky customers & clients are bad for you vibrationally too. Understand that you do not have to tolerate abusive behavior from anyone.

  11. Spend Time With Mother Nature- Get dirty in the mud, climb a tree, tend the garden, and of course my favorite- go Rock Hunting in creeks! Any outside activity will raise your frequencies high and fast. Try having lunch or dinner outside or play in the rain.

  12. Don’t Cuss- I admit I’m bad about this one and every day is a challenge lol.. but even if you are a complete potty mouth you can change your ways if you keep trying. Words have a very powerful effect on us and those around us so keep trying to watch your mouth because even if words are not said in anger there is still a negative energy behind them.

  13. Fear- Fear is also a frequency dropping energy. Abusive environments are always low vibrational energy environments and people being victimized are being victimized in more ways than one because you simply can’t be your vibrational best in a fearful environment.

  14. Mindless Activities- You are simply wasting time and not doing anything productive. This might be sitting on the phone searching videos or spacing out watching a show on TV that isn’t even interesting.Get up and do something productive!

  15. Live in The Present- What good does it really do to sit and think about bad stuff from the past? Forgive and Forget already! Keep the lessons learned but don’t dwell on anything you can’t do anything about. If you feel yourself slipping into a bad mood because you are reminded of something bad from the past just acknowledge it and let it go. Practicing just letting it go will raise your frequencies.

  16. Don’t Mistreat Yourself- I’ve always liked the saying that we should always treat yourself with as much kindness and respect as you would treat your Best Friend. Beating yourself up is pointless, instead try to use objective non- confrontational methods of self-criticism to understand why you did what you did. Figure it out, forgive the mistake, Give yourself credit for being kinder to yourself and move on.

  17. Judging Others- We are all here for a different lesson, each equally important so never judge another for their differences from yours. It’s important to practice diversity to keep your vibrations high.

  18. Alcohol- Alcohol of any kind, addicted or not will lower your Vibrations. Keep your alcoholic beverage consumption to a minimum or avoid it all together. While addiction itself lowers Vibrational Frequencies, you also have to be careful with anything that can be addictive even if you do not have an addiction problem. This includes, drugs, foods, caffeine, Nicotine, etc…

  19. Negativity- of course you know this right? Be mindful of your environment as well. Any type of Negativity will lower your vibes including being present to another person’s drama and arguing. I’ve said it a million times and I’ll say it a million more.. limit Social Media and the Negativity that comes with it. Personally I avoid it unless I have to log in for business reasons.

  20. Avoid Being Someone You Aren’t.- So many people are fake and it always shows. Being fake and living a lie leaves it impossible for you to raise your vibes. If you don’t think people will like the real you then you might need to make some changes in your life.


Most importantly Don’t Forget To Laugh, Laughing Will Always Raise You To An Optimal Vibrational Frequency.

Social time with Friends is also a great way to give yourself a Vibrational Boost. It’s just as important as your Alone Time.

Stress & Negativity are the most harmful energies around for your Vibrational Frequencies. If you are stressed out or in a bad mood find ways to lesson the Negativity and convert it to something positive,

Host a Dumb Feast With Your Ancestors

I came across a really neat idea while looking through my personal library of books on Spirituality. There is a tradition called a Dumb Feast that allows you to connect with your Ancestors, and it looks really fun!

First you will need to find out who is coming to dinner and what they liked to eat while they were among the living. If it was Grandma and she just passed a few years ago you might know exactly what she liked and bake her some brownies but if you want to go further back, here's what you do.

Go into Meditation

Once you reach a meditative state you can ask your ancestors to have dinner with you and ask them what they liked. You might get answers right away or it may take a week of "clues" to get your answer so be patient! If suddenly think of Grapes, you will know someone wants some grapes. If you get a request for something you can't obtain you can make a substitution.

If you don't know exactly who wants to come, use your Intuition and you will figure out who your guests were. Dreams and meditation can be helpful in providing clues. I think giving it a week would be a fair amount of time to allow everyone to accept would be appropriate but if you want to do it all in one day that is fine too! It's your Feast, get as simple or elaborate as you like.

On the day of your dinner make sure the house is looking and smelling good. Dress up as if you are having VIP Guests because you are. Decorate the house, put up some candles or get out the Essential Oils. Your Guests will leave you clues if they want something special.

You can do this on your own, or with the entire family, or with a group of friends. How about getting a few friends together and take turns attending each others Dumb Feasts and helping each other receive messages and interpret clues?

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Once your list is complete

Prepare your feast and set other plates at the table. Say a blessing and thank those who are attending and make sure you sample a little of everything you have cooked. While your Guests won't likely really eat of course, they will enjoy the atmosphere and company of the dinner and you will likely be highly sensitive to psychic communication at this time. You will also have ancestral and past life dreams for days after the dinner.

The process might sound silly or funny to think about, but the results are serious. These dinners are well known for attracting the right kind of Spirits to you so you can learn about yourself, your past lives, your physical and your soul family.

It's totally acceptable to ask them to meet with you in the Astral Plane while you are in a dream so you can meet them or learn about them or yourself.

After the dinner is over, blow out the candles and Thank them for coming. If you don't excuse them Goodbye they might hang around for a while so it's very important to let them know when it's time to go back "home".

You will probably get lots of messages and signs for several days in the form of visions, dreams, smells, signs, and more.

And here is the fun part!

You can also connect with Spirit Animals using the leftovers from your Dumb Feast. When you have finished your meal, take the scraps outside and leave them in the wilderness for the animals.

Your Spirit Animals from your lives that are able to feast will come and eat the scraps. If your Spirit Animal in this life is an Elephant and you live in Kentucky, you probably won't get that one of those to come, but others from other times will.

If you can put the food in a spot to observe it or put up a trail camera to watch the action it will really be enjoyable and rewarding for you to see your gift being happily accepted by a hungry animal that was connected to you from the Past.